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Set the boundary without panicking, over-explaining, or backing down
Not tougher boundaries. A safer way to hold them.
A €250 90-minute 1:1 session for sensitive, intuitive creatives who know what they need to say but their nervous system says “absolutely nawt.”
We build your Boundary Biome™ so you can finally say it, hold it, and not spiral after.
You’re not bad at boundaries. Your nervous system just doesn’t feel safe holding them yet.
This is for the moment where you almost say the boundary and then your body says... “hmm, maybe don’t.”
Because “just say it” advice is useless when you can taste the fear of speaking up on your tongue and then silently self-abandon.
That way you have the energy to put into your work, your ideas, and your life — NOT managing other people’s expectations.
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What we actually do
(and why it works)
Untangle the situation
We map what’s actually happening so you stop second-guessing yourself and finally see the dynamic clearly.
Design the boundary
We create clear, kind wording that feels natural to you and not scripted or forced or overly rude.
Rehearse it together
You practice saying your boundary and handling pushback so your body knows it’s safe to follow through.
Support you after
You get a short close-out session after you assert it so you don’t spiral or undo the boundary after you set it.
By the end of this, the boundary won’t just exist in your head.
You’ll know exactly what to say, when to say it, and how to stay grounded while you do.
You’ll have the words (that still feel like you)
No more over-explaining or backtracking it into nothing. You’ll have clear, kind language you can actually say out loud.
You’ll know how to handle their reaction
Whether they push back, get weird, or need time, you? You won’t spiral or go silent. You’ll know how to stay present and steady.
You’ll feel different in your body when you say it
You'll feel less panic. Less freezing or fawning. More grounded, supported, and able to follow through.
So when the moment comes, you don’t disappear. You stay. Okayyy!
Oh wait, there’s a bonus!
Because saying the boundary is one thing. Sitting with your feelings after is another.
Boundary Aftercare Audio Feed (€47 value):
A practical, grounding audio for the moments right after you say your boundary. For when you’re tempted to take it back, explain yourself more, or wonder if you were “too much.” Press play, come back to yourself, keep the boundary in place instead of walking it back.
This IS for you if you're:
→ always saying "yes" when your body's screaming “hell nah”
→ offering extra [anything] that no one asked for
→ over-accommodating clients, community members, hell - everybody
→ delaying your own dreams to ensure someone else realizes theirs
→ protecting everyone else’s comfort but your own
This ISN'T for you if:
✗ you’re looking for someone to script everything for you
✗ you’re not open to actually having the conversation
✗ you want to avoid the situation entirely
hey there, i'm kleidi jeen...
...and I used to be very good at abandoning myself mid-conversation
For a loooong time, this creative, sensitive Louisiana gal thought being kind meant being endlessly accommodating. I would ignore what I needed, over-explain my boundaries, or not say anything at all just to avoid tension.
And on the outside, it looked like I had it handled. But internally, I was a resentful, exhausted mess. Starting the summer of 2018, I started experimenting, learning, and actually practicing boundaries in my own life & realized...
...I didn’t need to become harsher to hold boundaries.
I needed a way to support my nervous system so I could stop abandoning myself. That’s the work I do now: helping sensitive, intuitive creatives set boundaries in a way that still feels like them, but actually holds.
YOU GET IT...I'M IN →
Katy
“[since working with Kleidi Jeen] I’ve noticed my boundary work has changed my marriage in a good way. I'm stating my boundaries (and my needs and desires) and he's totally honoring them.”
Wait, But Like…?
Don't see your question below? Send me an email at hello@softsundae.com and I'll get back to you ASAP!
What if my situation is too complicated?
Honestly, most of them are.
That's what this work is meant for — real, nuanced situations w/ long histories, tricky dynamics, & power imbalances. We’re not trying to force a clean, textbook boundary. We’re working with what’s actually there so the boundary fits your reality and feels doable.
Do I really need help for this… or should I just figure it out?
If you’ve been thinking about this boundary for a while and still haven’t said it, that’s usually a sign that support would help. Not because you’re incapable but because your nervous system is trying to protect you.
This just helps you move through it feeling supported & with wayyy less stress.
Will this make me confront something I’m not ready for?
What we're not gonna do is set you up to fail.
We work with what feels accessible to you right now. Sometimes clarity naturally brings things into focus, but you’re always in control of the pace. The goal is to support you in taking one step you’re actually ready for.
I’m newer to your work. How do I know this will actually help me?
What I can say is this: I’ve spent years figuring out how to hold boundaries without becoming harsher or less sensitive, and that’s exactly what I guide clients through now. The work is practical, grounded, and designed to support your nervous system.
And we’re focusing on one real situation, so you’ll be able to feel the difference right away.
Let’s not rehearse this same convo in your head while taking your next shower
You already know where you need this boundary. It’s been sitting in the back of your mind, rent-free, taking up energy. This is your chance to handle it ~with support~ so you can move forward.
Boundary Biome™
- 90-Min Session
- 15-Min Close-out Support Session
- Bonus: Boundary Aftercare Audio Feed
- Price: €250
