HEY, BOO!

BOUNDARIES ARE THE REAL GROWTH STRATEGY

Convinced you need to manage your time better? Nah.
You need to stop abandoning yourself in the name of ambition.

I help creatives build nervous-system-safe boundaries so they can be visible, ambitious, and paid without self-abandoning every five minutes.

Because selling from cortisol?
Baby, that’s not power. That’s fight-or-flight in lip gloss.

Your next level starts with what you no longer tolerate. 

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  • IF YOU HAVE TO DISAPPEAR TO KEEP IT GOING... 
  • IT'S NOT YOURS.
  • IF YOU HAVE TO DISAPPEAR TO KEEP IT GOING... 
  • IT'S NOT YOURS.
  • IF YOU HAVE TO DISAPPEAR TO KEEP IT GOING... 
  • IT'S NOT YOURS.
  • IF YOU HAVE TO DISAPPEAR TO KEEP IT GOING... 
  • IT'S NOT YOURS.
  • IF YOU HAVE TO DISAPPEAR TO KEEP IT GOING... 
  • IT'S NOT YOURS.
  • IF YOU HAVE TO DISAPPEAR TO KEEP IT GOING... 
  • IT'S NOT YOURS.
  • IF YOU HAVE TO DISAPPEAR TO KEEP IT GOING... 
  • IT'S NOT YOURS.
SOFT SUNDAE's mission

To help creatives get the art, the life, the money – while refusing to pick just one
without burning out, over-giving, or shrinking to be ‘the easy one’.

We build boundaries that don’t ~return to sender~ the second someone gets uncomfortable. Because when your system feels safe, your creativity stops serving chaos and starts leading.

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Download my free guide because…

You need boundaries that don’t flap in the wind every time your mom has an opinion. 

hey there, i'm kleidi jeen

Founder of Soft Sundae & your nervous system's bestie 

I built Soft Sundae after learning the hard way that burnout isn’t an effing joke and recovery starts with boundaries that work. Now I help creatives regulate their nervous systems and stop abandoning themselves in the name of ambition. Turns out,  a lil’ softness is a lot strategic.

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READY for SUPPORT that actually works?

Cool… So What Kind of Support Are We Talking?

Respectfully: Different seasons need different kinds of support. Start with the one that feels the most like “yeah… that’s it.

Stop leaking energy and start feeling safe in your own life again.

Boundaries + Capacity

For when everything feels like a lot: texts you don’t want to answer, conversations that drain you, expectations you never agreed to, and your own brain not letting you rest. We steady things out, by building real boundaries so you can create a version of your life that doesn’t run on pressure and adrenaline.

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Creative Identity + Direction

For creatives who can feel something trying to come through but keep circling it like a windstorm instead of claiming it. This is deep, 1:1 work to get clear on your direction, root into who you’re becoming, and start making moves that actually feel like you.

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Figure out what’s actually yours and start moving like you trust it.
Move through change without losing yourself in the process.

Energy + Transitions

For pivots, endings, identity shifts, and those in-between seasons where nothing feels fully stable, wobbling like Jello. This is where you process what’s shifting, recalibrate your energy, and stay grounded while your life rearranges itself.

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POP IN YOUR EARBUDS

Tune into the Between the Tabs podcast

This is where growth, softness, and entrepreneurship get to coexist without the pressure to package it perfectly.

Between the Tabs™ is a moodboard-style podcast for self-aware creatives figuring out who they are, what they’re building, and how to do it without abandoning themselves.

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FEATURED EPISODES:

Episode 02:

Anthropology + Visibility + Exercise + When Things Feel Heavy


Episode 03:

Manifestation + What is the Mind + the Signal + Relational Changes


Episode 04:

Being Perceived + Starting in the Middle + Paris + Lots of Tabs

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Ready to Stop Overriding Yourself?

That Cute New Notion Planner Isn’t Gonna Cut It, Babe.

You need a new baseline to replace the “surviving” OS you’ve been running on since 2021.

Download the 20 Ways to Say “No” freebie and start creating from steadiness that makes your ambition sustainable.

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  • CREATE WITHOUT LOSING YOURSELF
  • CREATE WITHOUT LOSING YOURSELF
  • CREATE WITHOUT LOSING YOURSELF
  • CREATE WITHOUT LOSING YOURSELF
  • CREATE WITHOUT LOSING YOURSELF
  • CREATE WITHOUT LOSING YOURSELF
  • CREATE WITHOUT LOSING YOURSELF

Soft Sundae provides support for people doing meaningful work with limited capacity and zero interest in performative productivity bullsh*t.