You’re A Grown Woman. Why Do You Feel 14 Around The People You Care About?

You don’t freeze with clients.
You don’t over-explain to strangers.

But in close relationships?
Your nervous system time-travels.

The Good Girl Glitch, €22, is a live 60-minute workshop that helps you stay clear and intact — even when kindness, care, and pressure collide.


You’re Not Avoiding Conflict.


You’re Avoiding That “Wow, Okay” From People You Care About.

You could say no but then there’s:

The subtle “I’m just trying to help.”
Which somehow makes you feel ungrateful for having your own opinion.

The passive “don't worry about it then.”
That absolutely does not mean “don't worry about it” EVER.

The long pause on FaceTime (or face to face).
The one where you can feel the disappointment claiming squatter's rights.

  • YOU CAN CARE AND STAY INTACT
  • YOU CAN CARE AND STAY INTACT
  • YOU CAN CARE AND STAY INTACT
  • YOU CAN CARE AND STAY INTACT
  • YOU CAN CARE AND STAY INTACT
  • YOU CAN CARE AND STAY INTACT
  • YOU CAN CARE AND STAY INTACT
  • YOU CAN CARE AND STAY INTACT
  • YOU CAN CARE AND STAY INTACT
  • YOU CAN CARE AND STAY INTACT
  • YOU CAN CARE AND STAY INTACT
  • YOU CAN CARE AND STAY INTACT
  • YOU CAN CARE AND STAY INTACT
  • YOU CAN CARE AND STAY INTACT

This Isn't Another Boundaries Webinar, Babe.

No scripts.
No fake tough-girl energy.
No “just say it like this.”

This is something different.

 

A Boundary Formula You’ll Use For Life

Not lines to memorize.
A simple Care + Scope framework that helps you respond authentically when pressure hits so you can stay you and still be clear, kind, and intact in any relationship.

 

Built To Shift You, Not Just Teach You

Each part layers intentionally: cultural context, embodied awareness, real-time practice.
By the end, you won’t just understand your pattern.
You’ll feel the shift in your body.

 

You’ll Practice This While You’re Supported

This isn’t you taking notes and hoping it works later.

You’ll have space for live coaching during the Care + Scope practice so you leave knowing how this feels in your own real-life dynamics.

€22? I LOWKEY NEED THIS →
GOOD GIRL GLITCH WORKSHOP

Leave With Boundaries That Don’t Make You Feel Like a Villain

 

HR boundaries won’t save you

Why Western Boundary Advice Breaks in Close Relationships

Most boundary advice assumes separation and independence. That works at work but falls apart in family. We unpack why “just say no” ignores culture, history, and relational complexity.

The Conditioning That Taught You Care = Overextension

Somewhere along the way, kindness got fused with self-sacrifice. We’ll trace how that wiring formed + why saying no feels like betrayal instead of balance.

Overextending isn’t proof of care
It’s not just yes or no...

The 3 Boundary Positions You’re Already Cycling Through

You’re not boundary-less. You’re switching between collapse, cut-off, and something steadier. You’ll learn to recognize each one in your body in real time.

Relational Integrity: The 3rd Option No One Taught You

The place where you can care deeply and stay intact. Clear without being cold. Firm without abandoning connection. This is the shift everything else builds toward.

You can care and stay intact
I FEAR THIS IS ABOUT ME →
so you thought it was just a workshop?

Here’s What Else Is Waiting For You

Rehearsal space, real insight into your relational patterns, and community support that actually stays with you while you practice being more intact.

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Inside The Boundary Studio

Before we even meet live, you’ll step into a private podcast experience that doubles as rehearsal + a relational role quiz. You’ll uncover the pattern you default to in close relationships + get a BTS look at the workshop and what’s coming next.

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Your Relational Role Breakdown (Delivered To Your Inbox)

After the quiz, you’ll receive a surprise deep-dive that unpacks your specific relational role — how it formed, how it protects you, and how it quietly costs you. It’s insight you can’t unsee (in the best way).

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The Private Community Space (Open For 1 Month)

This isn’t a hit-it-and-quit-it workshop. You’ll get access to a private space that gently holds you through the shifts, before and after we meet live, so you can process, practice, and be supported while you try on new boundaries in real life.

BONUSES PLS →
hey there, i'm kleidi jeen

Creative Wellness Strategist & Former Peacekeeper

I built this workshop after realizing “just say no” didn’t work when love, family, and cultural expectations were in the room with me.

Now I help creatives unlearn overextension, respond from steadiness, and grow their work without collapsing to keep the peace.

ADD TO CART BEFORE I OVERGIVE AGAIN →
snag Your Spot Inside The Good Girl Glitch

This Is The Part Where You Say Yes To Yourself

Fix The Glitch For €22

✓ Live 60-minute embodied workshop on relational boundaries

✓ LIFETIME access

✓ Immediate access to BONUS private community space (open til MAY 8)

✓ Private bonus podcast series (including the Relational Role Audit)

✓ Surprise bonus resource to deepen your boundary work
 
SAY LESS. PURCHASING.

Eola

"this coaching helped me to pause, prioritize, show up with authenticity, and let other people do the same…."

Kelly

"I have found her instruction to be both grounding for my soul & illuminating for my personal growth."

Michael

"unlocked new concepts of self love that I have never thought of before- it was a real eye opener..."

IF You can negotiate a contract… but fold when your parent questions your life choices...

Join The Good Girl Glitch and walk away with a boundary practice that actually works in real relationships. 

FIX THE GLITCH - JUST €22 →

Have a question?

Don't see your question below? Send me an email at hello@softsundae.com and I'll get back to you ASAP!

I’ve done therapy and read all the boundary books. Is this different?

Girl, yes.

We’re not unpacking your childhood for the 47th time. And I'm absolutely not handing you scripts that fall apart when your mom sighs.

This is cultural + somatic. You’ll feel your pattern. Then you’ll shift it.

What do I get immediately after I sign up?

Instant access to the private community space and bonus private podcast.

So yes: boundary support starts neow, not in two weeks.

The replay is yours fo-life. The community stays open until May 8th so you can practice without spiraling alone.

Do I really need to join the workshop live?

Respectfully? Yes.

The embodied pieces hit differently in real time. Aaaaand you’ll have a chance for live coaching during the Care + Scope practice.

Replay is all yours.
But the shifts happen in the room.

Do I need to confront someone after this?

Now you know I wouldn't do you like that.

We’re gonna build internal steadiness first. So if and when you DO speak, it’s grounded.  It's not reactive, not performative, not “oooh, look at me having boundaries.”

Calm. Clear. Your real self intact.

It’s €22… is this actually worth it?

If you’ve ever rehearsed boundaries in the shower and then abandoned them later in real conversations…

Yeah.

This is a lifelong framework for less than dinner out.

Also: the price goes up next round.

I’m a highly sensitive creative. Is this too intense for me?

Honey, this was built for you.

You don’t need more rigidity.
You need nuance, embodiment, and relational context.

This is the alternative to a personality transplant that you've been looking for.

CLOCKED. I'M IN →

If You’re Going To Keep Being The “Kind One,” At Least Do It Intact.

You’re not here for surface tips. You’re here because something has to shift.

Here’s what you’re walking away with:

You’ll Finally See Your Pattern Mid-Glitch

Not 3 hours later. Not after the resentment spiral. You’ll learn to feel when you’re collapsing, cutting off, or standing steady so you can choose differently in the moment.

A 15-Second Reset That Stops The Auto-Yes

A simple physical reset you can use mid-conversation — when the tone shifts, the guilt creeps in, or you feel yourself about to auto-yes. Simple. Fast. Powerful.

A Boundary Stance That Actually Sounds Like You

You’ll craft your own Care + Scope statement aligned with your culture, your values, and how you actually move through relationships.

A Way To Be Clear Without Becoming Cold

You don’t have to detach to be respected. You’ll leave knowing how to stay warm, connected, and firm — without collapsing to keep the peace.

IT'S GIVING SELF-RESPECT. I'M IN →

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